I have used Michelle Garcia Winner's book Social Fate and Social Fortune book. This worksheet is just one that I created directly from her book. It allows you to go through the unexpected behaviors, others' feelings and reactions to those behaviors and how you may feel after their reactions to you. Then the bottom half of the sheet talks about making another choice that is more expected and what the feelings and reactions might be in comparison and then how you might feel after doing something that others expect more in the specific situation.
Then once you use the sheet to talk about other's behavior choices, you can also use it to problem solve through their own choices.